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May 9, 2017

Dear Julie:

I wanted to ask you something about my daughter’s father who I am no longer in a relationship with because he used to verbally abuse me a lot and cheated on me and had intercourse with another girl behind my back when my daughter was only 2 months old. She is now one year old.

The girl he had sex with gave him herpes because he had unprotected sex with her on a one night stand. I had recently tried to make things work with him but then I broke up with him again because when I see him he makes me sick to my stomach and can’t seem to find myself happy with him in a relationship. He seems to think it will work but I really just want to move on with my life and meet someone new but then I wonder if I’m doing the right thing for my daughter.
–Seeking Advice


Dear Seeking Advice:

I’d say follow your heart. You are not married to this man. He makes you sick to your stomach and I agree he doesn’t sound like a prize. You and your daughter deserve better than this.

If you had unprotected sex with him since he contracted herpes, you would be wise to check with your doctor.

God bless. Julie


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