Challenges Women Face August 22, 2017 Dear Julie: I am a Christian, not a perfect one but I am a Christian. I have been friends with someone a very long time and just this January, we became intimate. We both really care for each other, but the only thing is he’s connected to church but doesn’t go. I fear spiritually I’ll go thru some unnecessary trials I could have avoided, but he is... read more

Still Wanting

  Challenges Women Face June 20, 2017 Dear Julie, Sometimes I can give advice but I can’t take my own. I am saved but I met this guy who is not saved. He also said he wanted a wife, so I ended up being intimate with him and feeling bad about it. Even though I like him, I can’t do this and I told him so he broke up with me. He says he doesn’t want to put him or me through this–he... read more

Missing the Intimacy

Challenges Women Face December 20, 2016 Dear Julie: I’ve been married for 3 years (we’ve been together 6 years) and we have a great relationship! We get along well and talk and share everything. The only issue we have is we DO NOT have sex, none. This has been my biggest issue with my husband. He’s a hard worker, great provider, he’s my best friend and I truly love him with... read more

Suddenly Sexy

Facing Our Challenges Head-On! December 22, 2015 Dear Julie: Over the past 15 months, I’ve lost 85 pounds and I look good. The problem is guys that never even noticed me when I was heavy are coming on to me. I’m uncomfortable about this. If I wasn’t good enough for them before, why am I now? I’m still the same person with the same conviction about no sex before marriage. How do I... read more